What causes guys to not be able to jizz during sex? Apparently it can be caused by anything from neurological problems to psychological problems and other health issues. It is actually estimated that 75% of these cases are from issues of mind over matter. Other guys are simply too well conditioned from wanking too much. Their dicks have trouble popping a load in any other way. Men who have this problem have to deal with societal pressure too. One guy with the condition said people tell him he doesn’t truly love his girlfriend if he can’t pop a load at her whim. Plus, a guy’s partner might worried he isn’t attracted to them anymore, or maybe even that he is stepping out.
“When people are living with life-limiting and life-threatening illness, one of the many things on their mind often is how to stay in connection with their loved ones, including with their partners” Said Dr. Sharon Bober, in a video on Huffington Post, and she says that sexuality is a good way to do this, but partners often don’t know quite how to bring it up.